
The MERI Center also focuses on helping patients and their caregivers cope with serious illness. Monthly advance care planning sessions are offered, free of charge. Other workshops and events will be conducted regularly to educate and engage our community in issues related to Palliative Care and end of life issues.
Due to COVID-19 we have converted our workshops online, interactive sessions. We will continue to assess our ability to hold in-person workshops.
- Day of Remembering
- Everything You Want to Know About Palliative Care
- Food for Thought: A Poetry Cafe
- Last Acts of Kindness; Care & Compassion at the End of Life
- Living Well with Dementia Series
- Loss, Losing, & Loosening: Exploring Grief and Healing Through Poem-Making
- Poetic Medicine for the "Wounded Healer"
- Serious Illness Support Group: Conversation about Living and Dying
- What Matters Most? Advance Care Planning Workshop
- Wounded Healer: Poetic Medicine for UCSF Nurses
Special Event:
On-Going Events:
Food for Thought: A Poetry Cafe
Thursdsays, 10:00 - 11:00 AM PST
Offered by Redwing Keyssar, RN, Author, Director of Patient and Caregiver Education at The MERI Center for Education in Palliative Care, UCSF/Mt Zion
In this one-hour “Poetry Café”, co-sponsored by the MERI Center for Education in Palliative Care and Art for Recovery, we will enter the realm of creativity through the art of “Poem-Making”
We will:
- Create a safe environment for each other-with a short guided meditation and music
- Listen to some poems read out loud and see how they make us feel
- Use some specific words or “prompts” to encourage our own “poem-making”
- Share our poetic explorations
In these challenging times, it is more important than ever to express our feelings and connect to our own creativity and community. Join us in using poetry writing as self-care & to explore our feelings, fears & hopes.
YOU DO NOT NEED TO BE A WRITER!
“Poetry is simply speaking the truth. Each of us has a truth as unique as our own fingerprints”
~Dr. Rachel Naomi Remen, from Intro to Poetic Medicine by John Fox
Making poems can:
- Surprise us
- Allow expression of feelings in creative ways
- Guide our own healing journey
Last Acts of Kindness; Care & Compassion at the End of Life
Next Session: TBD
A live-online 4-session workshop for anyone who wishes to foster confidence and resiliency in these difficult times, as we care for our patients, friends, families, ourselves and those in our community at the end of life. As an online Zoom course, we will attempt to create as positive, connected and experiential an environment as possible!
Let us change the face of dying in our culture from one of fear and anxiety to one of acceptance and compassion. Inevitable as death is for all beings, let us work to create experiences that are positive, potent and transformational.
Redwing Keyssar, RN, Midwife to the Dying
Last Acts of Kindness
Many people and especially healthcare providers will be in positions to be “end of life doulas” at some time--assisting people in the dying process. Most people, despite our professions, have little training and minimal experience or understanding what it means to “show up” at this delicate time.
Historically, most people died at home, surrounded by family and friends who tried their best to provide care. Then people began dying in hospitals, and death came to be regarded as a “medical event” rather than simply part of life. Now, many people are accepting the inevitability of death, and yet as a culture we are still not well prepared for the territory of death and dying.
This workshop will:
- Prepare us to show up at the bedsides of the seriously ill and/or dying—using the tenets of Palliative Care: to help relieve suffering physically, emotionally, spiritually, psychologically
- Offer guidance in supporting each other as caregivers-- both professional and “family” caregivers
- Assist us in creating personal toolkits for caregiving at the end of life
- Help us understand how our own myths and beliefs about life and death affect our roles as care-givers and care-receivers
- Offer practical knowledge about the dying process
- Pain and symptom management (an overview)
- Hospice and Palliative care issues
- Provide a step towards facing our own mortality, which is key to serving others
As an online Zoom course, we will attempt to create as positive, connected and experiential environment as possible!
Facilitated by Redwing Keyssar, RN
Maximum number of participants: 20.
Registration is for all 4 sessions
Loss, Losing, & Loosening*: Exploring Grief and Healing Through Poem-Making
*quote from Eric Poche
A weekly poem-making workshop led by Redwing Keyssar, RN, Author, Poet
Tuesdays | 11:00 am - 12:00 pm PST
Redwing Keyssar,RN, Author & Poet, will guide us in using poem-making to examine our grief and to find healing in our creativity.
This group focuses on grief and healing. Loss, Losing & Loosening was coined by Eric Poche.
Loss
Loss is an irrevocable event.
Losing
Acknowledgement of the pain of the loss.
Loosening
Integration of the loss in one’s life.
This is an open group that will meet weekly. Come once, come every week; there is no commitment to join every week.
Each week we will:
- Use poem-making to explore your grief, whether you are grieving the loss of a loved one or struggling due to this global pandemic
- Find healing through poems
- Create a supportive & caring community
You DO NOT need to be a writer or a poet to join.
Poetic Medicine for the "Wounded Healer"
4th Thursday of the Month, 12:00 - 1:00 pm
“The wounds are the places where light enters.” ~Rumi
Many of us, whether we identify as being in the “healing arts” or not, have wounds that we understand as the foundation of our own ability to heal and to have compassion for others. In these sessions we will open to whatever it is we consider our own “wounded places” and allow our poem-making to be part of our healing process.
“Everyone alive has suffered. It is the wisdom gained from our wounds and from our own experiences of suffering that makes us able to heal.”
~Rachel Naomi Remen
The psychologist Carl Jung coined the concept of The Wounded Healer. He took the insights of this Archetypal healing from Greek Mythology. Chiron, the wisest Centaur, was once inflicted with a severe physical wound. In his way to recovery, he found the goal of being a “Teacher of healing.” Many wise people have said, healing is not a process between the healer and the wounded. It’s a process of two equals. The teacher does heal the wounds, but the one who orchestrates it is the healer’s own experience of healing.
Redwing Keyssar, RN, Author & Poet, of the UCSF MERI CENTER for Education in Palliative Care will guide us in using poem-making to explore the concept of what it means to be a “wounded healer” and to find healing in our creative process together.
We will:
- Use poem-making to explore ideas about health and healing
- Create a supportive & caring community
Living with Serious Illness Support Group
Conversations about living and dying
1st & 3rd Tuesdays of the month, 12:30 PM - 1:30 PM PST
This group is for those with serious illness to meet and to connect with others.
Our goal is to provide a safe place for you to explore,
- To freely say out loud and share what you are experiencing, thinking and feeling
- To listen and learn from each other: what helps, what hurts and what heals?
- To express your concerns about the impact your illness has on others and yourself
- To talk about sharing information and having conversations with your loved ones
Sessions are open to people with serious illness. Meetings held virtually via Zoom. Link sent upon registration. Registration closes the day before the group.
Facilitators:
Lacy Fetting is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Oncology whose keen interest in Palliative Care has often focused on supporting patients in their communications with children. Lacy works with the GI Medical and Surgical Oncology team at UCSF, Mission Bay.
To Register:
Call the MERI Center at 415.509.8645 or email us at [email protected].
What Matters Most?
A free Advance Care Planning Workshop for all Patients
MERI offers free workshops throughout the year in advanced care planning for patients, staff, and caregivers that enable you to:
• Create a personalized plan to honor your wishes
- Have your questions answered
Online Workshops: *All times PACIFIC
Wednesday, April 23, 2025 | 1 pm - 3 pm PDT with Donna Neumark, RN
Tuesday, June 3, 2025 | 10 am - 12:00 pm PDDT with Greg Merrill, LCSW